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The Hidden Inclusivity Issues in Fertility and Pregnancy Apps

Most fertility and pregnancy apps look thoughtful on the surface. The UI is polished, the flows feel familiar, and the experience makes sense if your journey is smooth, linear, and fits a traditional family structure. But most fertility journeys don’t look like that. They move through loss, treatment, complex family dynamics, cultural expectations, and health realities that rarely get reflected in the product. These aren’t rare scenarios. They’re everyday experiences that shape how people try to conceive. When an app assumes one type of user and one type of journey, it does more than create friction. It can cause real harm. This post explores the inclusivity gaps fertility and pregnancy apps consistently overlook and why designing for real, diverse user journeys has to start on day one.

Issue 1: Designing Only for Successful Journeys

The Problem

Most fertility and pregnancy apps are built around one assumption: things will go well. The interface celebrates every milestone, counts up each week, shows upbeat fetal development visuals, and sends cheerful notifications. But fertility journeys are rarely that predictable. And when something goes wrong, the experience can shift from supportive to painful in seconds.

Real Scenarios Your Design Isn’t Handling

  • Users may be facing:
  • chemical pregnancies
  • miscarriages at any stage
  • ectopic pregnancies
  • failed IVF cycles
  • month after month of negative pregnancy tests
  • choosing to terminate
  • stillbirth

The Issue

During loss, users often have to:

  • delete pregnancy data while grieving
  • keep receiving Your baby is now the size of a lemon! notifications
  • see celebratory milestone graphics they no longer want
  • search through congratulatory layouts to find a tiny “end pregnancy” option hidden deep in settings

What Inclusive Design Looks Like

  • clear, compassionate options to pause or stop tracking
  • neutral language like “end tracking” instead of “lost the baby”
  • immediate stop to all future notifications
  • the ability to preserve data privately without constant reminders
  • resources for grief support, not “try again” messaging
  • no forced explanations or required fields

Issue 2: Assuming One Family Structure

The Problem

Most fertility and pregnancy apps still default to a single narrative: a heterosexual couple conceiving through intercourse. The language, flow, and feature set all follow that path. But fertility journeys take many shapes, and when your app only recognises one, you unintentionally push everyone else to the margins.

Who Gets Excluded

  • LGBTQ+ couples using donors
  • single parents by choice
  • people using donor eggs or sperm
  • families working with surrogates
  • co-parents who aren’t romantic partners
  • users navigating secondary infertility

The Issue

Rigid assumptions make the app feel unwelcoming. Users are forced to fit into templates that don’t match their lives:

  • fields for one “partner” only
  • cycle tracking that assumes intercourse equals a conception attempt
  • language limited to “mom” and “dad”
  • features focused solely on “natural” conception
  • forms that assume Western, nuclear family structures

What Inclusive Design Looks Like

  • flexible relationship configurations
  • gender-neutral language with personalisation
  • support for IUI, IVF, donor cycles, and surrogacy
  • “family member” or custom role labels
  • design that recognises treatment doesn’t always mean infertility

Issue 3: Assuming One Type of Body and Daily Life

The Problem

Most fertility and pregnancy apps quietly assume that users have the time, energy, health, and cognitive capacity to move through their journey in a typical way. But many people are navigating fertility while also managing chronic illness, neurodivergence, mental health needs, mobility differences, or unpredictable energy levels. Their experiences aren’t “special cases.” They’re part of the everyday landscape of fertility.

Real User Situations

  • chronic pain that disrupts treatment schedules
  • neurodivergent users overwhelmed by cluttered layouts
  • mental health conditions that require medication adjustments
  • mobility challenges that make appointment planning complex
  • autoimmune conditions that complicate fertility tracking
  • sensory or cognitive needs that affect how information is processed

The Issue

When apps assume one type of body and one type of brain, they push these users into the background. They end up with:

  • rigid tracking flows that don’t match their lived experiences
  • information density that is cognitively overwhelming
  • medication logs that ignore complex regimens
  • reminder systems that assume easy travel and scheduling
  • symptom trackers that exclude relevant daily realities

What Inclusive Design Looks Like

  • customisable symptom tracking that reflects real life
  • flexible appointment workflows
  • calmer, simpler information hierarchy
  • language and flow that supports fluctuating energy levels
  • medication tracking that accommodates complexity

Issue 4: When Essential Features Depend on Income

The Problem

Fertility journeys often come with real financial strain, even outside of clinical treatment. People are already paying for tests, supplements, childcare, transportation, time off work, or ongoing wellness routines. When fertility apps put core functionality behind subscription gates, they often don’t realise they’re designing for users with comfortable financial margins. The issue isn’t monetization. It’s tying the basics of fertility support to someone’s income level.

The Issue

When essential features require payment, users who need structure the most end up with the least. This commonly includes:

  • cycle and ovulation logging
  • supplement or medication schedules
  • appointment or task reminders
  • partner or caregiver access
  • exporting data for personal or medical use

None of these are luxury add-ons. They’re the basic tools people rely on to stay organised and informed during an already stressful chapter.

What Inclusive Design Looks Like

  • a clear, intentional line between essential and premium features
  • paid tiers that offer deeper insights or extra convenience, not basic functionality
  • one-time passes or time-bound upgrades during key phases
  • a free version that still feels supportive and complete
  • pricing that recognises the financial realities tied to fertility

Issue 5: Cultural and Religious Accessibility

The Problem

Most fertility and pregnancy apps are designed with Western, secular norms in mind. That means the language, milestones, food guidelines, and privacy defaults reflect only a small portion of global fertility experiences. For many users, these assumptions aren’t just inaccurate. They create friction or discomfort during a deeply personal journey.

What Gets Missed

  • religious restrictions that influence conception timing
  • cultural norms around when to share pregnancy news
  • dietary practices that go far beyond Western food lists
  • privacy concerns in communities where fertility is considered sensitive
  • naming conventions and family structures outside Western templates
  • milestone celebrations that look different across cultures

What Inclusive Design Looks Like

  • milestone tracking that users can customise
  • privacy controls aligned with cultural contexts
  • dietary guidance that includes diverse food cultures
  • flexible timing for announcements
  • language that avoids assuming Western norms

Inclusivity Is Designing for Real Fertility Journeys

Real inclusivity means designing for the emotional, cultural, financial, and health realities that shape fertility journeys every day. These paths are rarely linear. They move through loss, complex family structures, cultural expectations, financial strain, and life circumstances that do not fit the traditional script most apps rely on. When a product only works for smooth, predictable journeys, it unintentionally harms the people who need thoughtful design the most. The answer is simple. Design for loss, diversity, cultural context, and real life from the beginning. Not as extras. As the foundation.

Pili Laviolette
Pili is a UX/UI designer specializing in trust-first design for femmes and families. She's a mom, designer, and advocate for building products that work for real life.

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